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Events

The ceremony is on 7/19, and there will be a backyard Powderhorn-style Havdallah transitional ritual the night before.

High level Calendar

Havdallah and Potluck

7/18/2026

6:00pm – 11:00pm

Our friend's backyard in Longfellow, don't worry it's big

We recommend lighter clothing and bringing a jacket. The venue has both indoor and outdoor parts and we'll move between them.

Event schedule

Vibe

TBD

Dress suggestion

Imagine sitting outside for hours in a highly humid and hot place. Do that, but look good doing it 😎

What is a Jewish Wedding?

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Wedding

7/19/2026

4:00pm – 10:00pm

Silverwood Park, St. Anthony MN

The wedding will run from mid-afternoon into the evening, with dinner and cake provided. Check the weather! It can go from quite hot during the day to cool at night. We recommend lighter clothing and bringing a jacket. The venue has both indoor and outdoor parts and we'll move between them.

Event schedule

Vibe

TBD

Dress suggestion

Imagine sitting outside for hours in a highly humid and hot place. Do that, but look good doing it 😎

What is a Havdallah?

Short explainer on Jewish wedding....

Ours will be ....

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Sangeet

aka Show and Tell, or, a Friend Talent Show

7/4/2025

6:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Live Oak Community Center, Berkeley, CA

Sangeet FAQ

What is a Sangeet?

A Sangeet (Sung Together from Sanskrit) traditionally occurs before the wedding and is a time for friends and family to join together for song and dance. We’re adapting it to be a Show and Tell on the theme of Love, Change and Leaps of Faith.

Who is the talent?

You. You are the talent.

What are examples of things people are doing?

• The groom will share his Apple Notes (48 and growing) about the bride.
• A close friend will sing a song on guitar about remembering loved ones who have passed.
• The bride and groom will demonstrate their commitment to carrying each other through hard times.
• There will be a game that pits the bride's friends against the groom’s.
• Our friend Nolen (hi!) will juggle. Well we haven't asked him yet but we hope he will perform this Leap of Faith with gravity.

When to arrive

We’ll start the show at 6:30pm and eat around 7pm.

How to get there

You can BART to Downtown Berkeley and take the 18 or 67 bus, or Uber from there. Keep in mind it will be July 4!

Where to park

Live Oak Community Center does not have onsite parking, so you will need to find street parking if you’re driving.

What to bring

Whatever you need for your show and tell!

Food

We’ll provide a casual dinner (probably pizza) and nonalcoholic beverages (the venue is alcohol free).

Vibe

Dressy casual.

Dress suggestion

🧺☀️🍷
Picnic (Casual)

7/5/2025

11:00 am - 3:00 pm

Cragmont Rock Park, Berkeley, CA

How to get there

We recommend taking an Uber from the Downtown Berkeley BART station or carpool.

Food

We will provide pastries & coffee, bring any other treats you want to share.

Vibe

Casual.

Dress suggestion

Literally anything.

Travel & Accommodations

Flying

The closest airports are SFO and OAK. You can take the BART to Berkeley from either.

Lodging

We recommend you get an AirBnb. If you're worried about finding a place to stay, hit us up and we'll find a way to house you!

Color Palette

If you wanna be on-brand on brand.

Books As Gifts 📖

Everyone loves gifts. Here is what we'd love from you.

Bring TWO copies of ONE book that has either:

• Taught you something about being a good person, or
• Taught you something about leading a good life.

Include a note or inscription inside both copies of the book explaining why you picked it.

One copy will find a new home on K&M's wedding book shelf and the other will go into a swap pile at our Sangeet. You'll get to go home with a book 💜.

FAQs

More Qs? Text us and we'll add to this section.

Do I have to come to every event?

No. But please RSVP (especially to the wedding) so we have enough food for everyone!

What about the India wedding?

There will be one! Probably in Jan or Feb 2026. We're figuring out the details and will reach out soon.

What if I want to give you guys a non-book gift? Do you have a registry?

Thank you, you dreamy person. We have no registry. If you are so moved, you could donate to one of these two organizations in our names. Drop us a note if you decide to do that!